How to Host a Nesting Party the Right Way

If you’ve ever heard of a baby shower, you know it’s all about celebrating the parents-to-be with gifts and well-wishes. But have you ever considered a nesting party? It’s the ultimate way to help an expecting parent prepare their home, reduce stress, and actually get things done before baby arrives—with a little help from their favorite people.

Whether you're a parent-to-be or a loved one looking to lend a hand, here’s how to host a nesting party the right way!

What is a Nesting Party?

A nesting party is a practical, hands-on gathering where friends and family come together to help expecting parents get their home baby-ready. Think of it as a productive version of a baby shower—minus the games, plus a lot more checkmarks on the to-do list.

Rather than unwrapping onesies, guests can help with things like:
✅ Organizing baby clothes
✅ Setting up the nursery
✅ Meal prepping for postpartum
✅ Sanitizing bottles & baby gear
✅ Assembling furniture
✅ Stocking up on essentials

It’s all about lightening the load so new parents can focus on what really matters—resting and bonding with their baby.

Step 1: Set the Tone

A nesting party isn’t about sitting in a circle and watching gift bags get opened—it’s a hands-on event with a purpose. When sending invites, be clear about what to expect:
📅 Pick a date a month or two before the due date to ensure there’s plenty of time to prepare.
📍 Choose a space that makes sense—likely the parents-to-be’s home!
📝 Create a list of tasks in advance, so guests know how they can help.
🛍️ Instead of traditional gifts, encourage practical contributions like freezer meals, organization help, or even hand-me-down baby gear.

Step 2: Plan the Tasks

Break the nesting party into stations so guests can easily pick a task:

🍼 Sanitizing & Stocking – Have a station for washing bottles, organizing diapers, and setting up feeding supplies.

👕 Laundry & Organization – Let friends fold tiny onesies, sort baby socks, and label storage bins for easy access.

🛏️ Nursery Setup & Design – This is perfect for helping a friend who might be overwhelmed with nursery design. Whether it’s assembling the crib, arranging décor, or styling the space, a little help can go a long way!

• Need to tie the room together? Fresh crib sheets and blankets can add warmth and style to the nursery. (Psst... Our soft, breathable Cradle Comforts crib sheets are a perfect finishing touch!)

• Not sure where to start? Pinterest boards and color swatches can help guests bring the parent’s vision to life.

• Even something as simple as hanging artwork or putting away baby books can make the space feel complete.

🍽️ Meal Prepping – Ask guests to bring freezer-friendly meals or help cook postpartum-friendly dishes.

💡 Pro Tip: Create a checklist so guests can mark off tasks as they go—it’s surprisingly satisfying!

Step 3: Make it Fun!

Just because it’s a productive gathering doesn’t mean it can’t be enjoyable!
🎶 Play music in the background to keep the energy up.
☕ Provide easy-to-eat snacks and drinks (mocktails for the parent-to-be, of course!).
📸 Snap some candid photos—these will be priceless later!
💬 Take breaks to chat and share advice—it’s a great time to hear mom wisdom from experienced parents.

Step 4: Say Thank You

After a successful nesting party, make sure to show appreciation to those who helped out. Some simple but thoughtful ideas include:
💌 A heartfelt thank-you text or card
🎁 A small gift, like a candle or self-care item
🍪 Sending guests home with some extra treats from the party

Why Every Parent Deserves a Nesting Party

Let’s be honest—preparing for a baby is a lot of work. Instead of parents tackling it all alone, a nesting party turns the process into a fun, meaningful experience with the support of loved ones. It’s a game-changer for first-time parents and seasoned ones alike.

So, if you’re expecting (or know someone who is), consider swapping the traditional shower for something more practical, helpful, and just as special. Your future self will thank you!

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Would you host a nesting party? Let us know in the comments! 💬👇